Comments for Advice in Love Relationships

Comment on Who do You Follow: Karl Marx or Jesus Christ? by drwelpton

drwelpton — Thu, 12 Apr 2012 01:13:32 +0000

Josey,
As a dog you aren’t expected to do much. Just enjoy a dog’s life. On the other hand, I didn’t realize we had vodka subsidies too! But I understand you have the right to drink as well as eat–right?

Comment on Who do You Follow: Karl Marx or Jesus Christ? by Joseythedog

Joseythedog — Wed, 28 Mar 2012 18:59:51 +0000

Well, this is the deal. From each according to his ability, to each according to his need. Dooh? What ability? Dah, I canna do not mucha nuttin.
Well, I can take free healthcare, free food, free housing, a little spending money, vodka subsidy and if I get all that, well I’ll push a broom a few hours a day.
Anonymous PhD.

Comment on Am I in the Right Relationship by drwelpton

drwelpton — Wed, 14 Mar 2012 20:20:01 +0000

Clare,
I am pleased that you got my book and found it is helping you as well as read my just posted article on the Law of Attraction.
If you follow each chapter and do the work it requires it will change your life. I know, because it changed mine.
My very best wishes,
Dr. Doug

Comment on Am I in the Right Relationship by Clare

Clare — Wed, 14 Mar 2012 18:37:39 +0000

Dear Dr Welpton-thank you for your response and I have read your Law of Attraction article with interest, the points you discuss definitely make sense to me. I will also look at your book with interest.

Many many thanks

Clare, UK

Comment on Am I in the Right Relationship by drwelpton

drwelpton — Wed, 14 Mar 2012 05:38:19 +0000

I am concerned for the long term about the differences in goals and values you describe. You need to be clear with yourself whether it is all right with you to be the principle breadwinner and to earn most of your family income while you are simultaneously raising your child? That is a lot for you to take on and you could well end up feeling resentment when Tony is taking it easy. Differences in goals and values do not go away and usually become more burdensome to a relationship over time.
If you are not married I recommend you have Tony sign a legal contract that commits him to a level of child support when you do have a child. Too many men disappear from the family when the responsibilities of raising a child confront them.
You will not repeat your mother’s mistakes because you are so aware of them, but you will make other mistakes you don’t foresee. We all do. The challenge is to see them sooner rather than later and take on changing the mindsets that cause them. My book can be helpful to you with this process.
Do not try to change your partner–it doesn’t work. Change yourself and you will change your marriage/relationship but make sure first that you are willing to live with your differences with Tony for a lifetime because you will live with them once you have a child together even if you come apart.
Doubt and fear undermine peace and calmness. Eternal confusion is debilitating. Read the article I just posted on this blog-site regarding the Law of Attraction because parts of it are relevant to you and your persistent doubts.
With my best wishes.
.

Comment on Am I in the Right Relationship by Clare

Clare — Tue, 13 Mar 2012 20:44:37 +0000

In every relationship I always question and feel uncertain about whether the relationship is “right” for me. Most people and indeed most articles I have read would say if you are feeling that way, it indicates it ISN’T right for you. Yet I wonder, whether my doubt or scrutinisation comes from my unsettled childhood and fear of repeating the mistakes in relationships my mother made, as I question every relationship i am in and indeed most aspects of my life and feel it isn’t necessarily a comment on the person/relationship to consider whether something might be right or not.

My partner and I are thinking about having children soon and as that would indicate, I love him very much. I think, since deciding more seriously, about trying for children I have started to worry and scrutinise our relationship and whether we are “right” for each other.
Tony and I are very different people and we have had to work through a lot and at times I question if we are just too “different”. We have most common shared interests, he makes me laugh and we are very loving towards each other. We have had major arguments and even seperated for a short while-but following this i do feel that he made extra effort and so did I, to take on board what the other was saying to make things work.
However- Our long term goals and values are quite different and at times this concerns me and adds to my questioning of this relationshop being “right” or not. I want to develop in my career and earn a fairly decent amount of money-Tony is supportive of this, but content with his lot…I find Tony interesting but at times not always inspiring as he doesn’t like to push himself and I admire people that do. Friends relationships seem to “match” or “flow” more than ours does…and i continue to worry! when is something right and when is something not?!!!!!! Eternally confused…

Comment on Hope: the Story of King Theo and Lydan the Sage, Part 2 by Peggy Hall

Peggy Hall — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 23:58:46 +0000

Yes — have tweeted and posted on FB, too!!
with many thanks….look forward to following your blog! We can all use inspiration (especially those of us who inspire others!)

Comment on I Have No Job: What Can I Do? by drwelpton

drwelpton — Tue, 03 Jan 2012 01:07:55 +0000

Peggy,
You are most welcome.
I appreciate your support.
Bless you for your service too,
Dr. Doug

Comment on Part 3 of Hope: the Story of King Theo and Lydan the Sage by drwelpton

drwelpton — Tue, 03 Jan 2012 00:57:44 +0000

I am grateful to you, Peggy, for sharing your own experience with me. There is nothing like our testimonials to help others with their journeys. God bless you.

Comment on Hope: the Story of King Theo and Lydan the Sage, Part 2 by drwelpton

drwelpton — Tue, 03 Jan 2012 00:55:36 +0000

Peggy,
As a teacher of yoga and meditation please feel free to share this story with your students. Yoga and meditation have helped me in my journey too. Thank you.