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	<title>Advice in Love Relationships</title>
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	<description>From Dr. Doug Welpton</description>
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		<title>The Compulsive Use of Sex Videos Destroys Marriages &amp; Relationships</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Dr. Doug Welpton talks with Mike on the Mike Bullard Show about love, good sex, intimacy, and lust.  Dr. Doug says we have been sold a bill of goods being led to believe that using sexy videos leads to good sex in relationships and marriage.  Lust leads to sexual pleasure and a temporary high, but it does nothing to promote love.  A relationship is built on sharing yourself, your thoughts and feelings, with your partner.  Lust does not promote intimacy.  Sex based on lust is ...]]></description>
		<link>http://adviceinloverelationship.com/the-compulsive-use-of-sex-videos-destroys-marriages-relationships/</link>
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		<title>What do Tiger Woods, Jesse James, &amp; Eliot Spitzer have in common?</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Tiger Woods, Jesse James, and ex-Governor Eliot Spitzer have all had sexual affairs. Sexual addiction appears to have caused them to cheat on their wives at great cost to their marriages, their families, and their careers. Feelings of shame and unworthiness underlie the lust and drive to have compulsive sex as a way to relieve feeling unworthy. Compulsively driven sex and infidelity, however, only cause more shame and feeling worth-less. A vicious circle of inner conflict and torment results. The marriages and careers of the sex addict are diminished or destroyed as a consequence. 
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		<link>http://adviceinloverelationship.com/what-do-tiger-woods-jesse-james-eliot-spitzer-have-in-common/</link>
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		<title>Sex Addiction, Lust, and Pornography</title>
		<description><![CDATA[       Being a sex addict is not an excuse for lust or compulsive sex.  Admitting you are a sex addict is the first step toward recovery.  Recovery is a challenging process of weaning.  The addict must learn to give up acting on impulse.  He must give up the feeling of entitlement that he has a right to whatever he wants.  He has to develop the boundaries and discipline to say ‘no’ to himself before engaging in sex, before touching, ...]]></description>
		<link>http://adviceinloverelationship.com/sex-addiction-lust-and-pornography/</link>
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		<title>Tiger Woods: affairs admission opens way to an honest life   </title>
		<description><![CDATA[In their show &#8220;The Bottom Line of Romance&#8221; my discussion with Larry Arnette and Sharon Stevens discusses sexual and financial infidelity using Tiger Woods affairs as an example.  The sudden shattering of his pristine image has shocked the world and his fans, and the initial cover up has provoked more media attention to the full story and details, creating a conflict between &#8220;too much information&#8221; and &#8220;celebrity gossip.&#8221;  With the admission of his affairs Tiger Woods has lost his previous image but freed himself from living a secret double life.  ...]]></description>
		<link>http://adviceinloverelationship.com/tiger-woods-affairs-admission-opens-way-to-an-honest-life-2/</link>
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		<title>Sex addiction, Tiger Woods &amp; therapy, love vs. lust</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Sex addiction is promoted by our society's focus on lust and the false idea that lust promotes good sex and even love.  Sex addiction can be healed through knowledgeable counseling and recovery groups.]]></description>
		<link>http://adviceinloverelationship.com/sex-addiction-tiger-woods-therapy-love-vs-lust/</link>
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		<title>How couples talk successfully about finances and money</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Host Rick Vazquez, author of &#8220;The Pizza Delivery Millionaire&#8221; and host of the Web Talk Radio show titled &#8220;Winning in the Game of Life&#8221; discusses with me how couples can talk successfully about their finances.   The steps I explain include giving each other a reward for the discussion, learning to appreciate what your partner contributes to your financial process, setting aside the time, talking without criticism or blaming, and using a positive tone while making eye contract.  To avoid judgments couples use &#8220;I&#8221; not &#8220;you&#8221; statements and limit themselves to ...]]></description>
		<link>http://adviceinloverelationship.com/how-couples-talk-successfully-about-finances-and-money/</link>
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		<title>How to Discuss Money without Arguing or Fighting</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Host Don Campbell and I discuss the unintended consequences of divorce.  Money is one of the leading causes of divorce, especially when a spouse has the mindset that your partner should think like you do, that is, that your partner who is a spender should become a saver or vice-versa.
There are several steps each of which adds to your success in a money conversation.  Starting by giving your partner a reward that they want at the end of your discussion helps build pleasure into what can otherwise be ...]]></description>
		<link>http://adviceinloverelationship.com/how-to-discuss-money-without-arguing-or-fighting/</link>
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		<title>What causes cheating or sexual infidelity?</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Cheating is a symptom that something is missing. Usually the unfaithful partner is feeling: 1) the loss of romance,sex,&#038; excitement. It is easier to fall in love than to stay in love; 2) the lack of connection and communication including the difficulty discussing touchy subjects like money, sex, &#038; in-laws causing emotional distance between partners; 3) wavering self-acceptance and self-esteem causing the unfaithful partner to seek approval, admiration, and esteem from other people. The unfaithful partner may feel superior or inferior to others, neither of which is reliable self-esteem. Affairs ...]]></description>
		<link>http://adviceinloverelationship.com/what-causes-cheating-or-sexual-infidelity/</link>
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		<title>Tiger Woods&#8217; affairs: Truths and Consequences. KQRS Mike Barnard Show</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Tiger Woods was devastated by his father&#8217;s infidelities with his mother, Tida, according to his first girlfriend, Dina Parr.  His father, Earl, had been unfaithful to his first wife, Barbara, too.  Tiger&#8217;s pristine image has been shattered, he has lost advertising sponsors, and his marriage to Elin Nordegren is headed toward divorce with painful consequences not just for Tiger and Elin but for their two young children as well.
Tiger is faced with a life changing decision: whether to confront his infidelities and his legacy from his otherwise revered ...]]></description>
		<link>http://adviceinloverelationship.com/tiger-woods-affairs-truths-and-consequences-kqrs-mike-barnard-show/</link>
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		<title>Tiger Woods difficulties: can he recover? Dean Johnson, WCAP Host</title>
		<description><![CDATA[What got Tiger Woods to throw away what appeared to be a perfect life? Something was missing: do he and Elin talk? Was it his father&#8217;s death? Golf as a childhood? His parents&#8217; separation? His wife&#8217;s first pregnancy? Can Tiger recover? Can his marriage be saved?



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