Part 5 The Cost of Financial Infidelity We met three weeks later. They sat on the sofa, I in my chair with the round leather-topped coffee table between us. “I’ve cut down on pot,” Steve said. “I’m determined to stop in a week.” “Are you okay with that?” I asked....
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An Emotional Affair Meets Financial Infidelity: Part 1. Who’s the Victim, Who the Offender?
Part 1: The Drama Triangle: Who's the Victim and Who the Offender? I met them in the waiting room where they were sitting on the yellow couch upholstered with lively red and blue flowers. They both smiled as we shook hands and walked through the hall into my...
Fired —Tom’s Story
What a pain in the ass. Steve, my boss, gave me ten-thousand dollars before he took a leave from the company he owned. He told me he wanted me to make good use of the money. He was gone for three years. I was scared I’d lose his money, so I put it in a safe. When...
Michelle Corr,VoiceAmerica: Change Your Mindsets to Live in Heaven and not in Hell
Change your mindsets/beliefs to change your relationship, to live in Heaven rather than Hell. For example, you don't have to think alike about saving and spending your money to bring together your different mindsets for the good of your marriage. Seeing what's...
Ray Horner, WAKR, 1590 AM, Is Equality Important to Your Marriage?
Resentment arises between partners when one feels "better than" or "less than" the other. Partners need to discuss their resentments and work on changing their self-images to rectify feeling and seeing themselves as inferior or superior.
Is Equality Important in Your Marriage? Part 3
Scott started our meeting. “I think I’ve found a solution to Karen’s feeling unequal,” he said with excitement. “What do you have in mind?” I inquired. “It’s a surprise,” Scott answered. “I wanted to share it with you right here,” he said as he turned toward Karen....
Who do You Follow: Karl Marx or Jesus Christ?
Ben Franklin taught us that “the early bird gets the worm” to motivate us to rise early in the day to be productive. Some people have misunderstood Franklin’s maxim as threatening scarcity. They misinterpret “the worm” to mean there is only one worm, and that only the...
Abundance or Scarcity? How to have prosperity for yourself and others.
If you want prosperity believe in your heart in the goal you want. Want for everyone what you want for yourself-- wealth, a love relationship, better health or whatever you desire instead of buying into scarcity. Return more in service value than you are paid in cash...
Is Money the root of all evil?
Ernestine Hendricks, host on WTWG, 1050 AM, and I discuss the beliefs that keep us from creating wealth like our feeling that pursuing money is bad and means we are greedy or dishonest. Money is a form of energy and we earn it through expending physical or mental...
Do Love and Money Go Together in a Marriage?
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CD1: Financial Infidelity & Money
CD2: Is my Partner the Right Person for Me?
CD3: To Stay or Not to Stay: Considerations before Divorcing
CD4: Stop Arguing for the Sake of Your Relationship