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[3 Feb 2009 | 2 Comments | ]

I am Dr. Doug. I help people change their lives. The simple truth is: no one cares how much you know until they know how much you care. My success with the people I counsel comes from my caring combined with my knowledge.

I am a graduate of Harvard Medical School and Stanford University. I am trained and Board certified as a physician, a psychiatrist, an individual and couples therapist, and a family therapist. For more than forty years I have been highly successful helping people with problems like relationships that aren’t working, failing marriages, anxiety and depression, alcohol and drug problems, attention deficit, loss and grief among others. I published the book Attract Love, Intimacy and Money and I have a medical license in Florida and in Massachusetts.

I grew up in Omaha, Nebraska and Los Angeles, California. I practiced psychiatry in Boston until I moved to Florida in 2005. I have been married for 31 years. We have four children and six grandchildren in our reconstituted family.

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[19 May 2015 | No Comment | ]

 Part 4: We must give up the blame game if we want happiness and success in marriage.
At our next meeting, Steve and Carey sat closer on the sofa.
“How’s it going?” I inquired.
“We’re better.” Steve glanced down.  “I’ve ended my meetings with Vanessa.”
“Was it painful?”
He raised his head. “I told her our talks are costing me my marriage.”
“What’d she say?”
“She said she’s married and she understood.”
“How’d you feel about that?”
“I was sad.  It’s a loss.” He cleared his throat.  “But I’m relieved.”
“Relieved of what?”
Steve shifted in his seat and looked at …

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[13 Apr 2015 | No Comment | ]

 Part 3: Boundaries enable you to protect yourself and your partner physically, sexually, and emotionally when you talk
“We need to discuss boundaries,” I said. It was the start our next meeting. “How you establish and maintain them.”
“Boundaries sound like putting up fences,” Steve said.  “I thought we’re working to get closer?”
“It’s paradoxical,” I responded. “Robert Frost said it well: ‘Good fences make good neighbors.’”
“I think I’d feel safer with walls,” Carey said sarcastically. 
Steve rolled his eyes.  “Oh God, here we go again.”
 “Walls give you complete protection, but they disconnect you from …

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[29 Mar 2015 | No Comment | ]

Part 2: Pioneers Have to Invent a Successful Marriage Lacking a Model from their Parents
 
Our meetings continued.  Steve’s tone mellowed and he became less self-righteous.  Carey sat forward on the sofa and her tone became more assertive.  With joy she announced her new job. Her former boss now worked for a different company.  When she phoned him, he eagerly employed her.
“I feel appreciated again!” Her tone bubbled with excitement.
With new confidence, Carey spoke what she’d been holding in. “I hate your smoking pot,” she said to Steve.  “It’s not just …

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[19 Dec 2014 | No Comment | ]

Part 1: The Drama Triangle: Who is the victim and who the offender?
 
 At my invitation they sat on the blue sofa—at opposite ends.
“We’re completely stuck.” Carey threw up her hands.  “We can’t even talk!”
“That’s right.” Steve sat taller.  He was already taller than Carey. “She won’t talk with me about anything important!”
He is angular and sinewy.  She is solid and curvy.
“We’ve lived together for thirteen years,” she said.  “We didn’t marry until 2012. He wasn’t sure I was good enough.”  She sneered.
Steve rolled his head in exaggerated exasperation. “We separated …