Part 5 The Cost of Financial Infidelity We met three weeks later. They sat on the sofa, I in my chair with the round leather-topped coffee table between us. “I’ve cut down on pot,” Steve said. “I’m determined to stop in a week.” “Are you okay with that?” I asked....
financial infidelity
An Emotional Affair Meets Financial Infidelity: Part 1. Who’s the Victim, Who the Offender?
Part 1: The Drama Triangle: Who's the Victim and Who the Offender? I met them in the waiting room where they were sitting on the yellow couch upholstered with lively red and blue flowers. They both smiled as we shook hands and walked through the hall into my...
The Truth on Changing Your Life Now, WTWG 1050 AM, with Dr. Doug & Ernestine Hendricks
You can change your life no matter how old you are by recognizing the mistaken beliefs (dysfunctional mindsets) that limit you and your relationships. You have to replace those mistaken beliefs with truths (functional mindsets). It is not enough to have these new...
Excess & Addiction: how to help our children & ourselves
I discuss with Ernestine Hendricks on WTWG 1050 AM how to teach our children through our own lives how to combat excesses and addictions by not giving in to our compulsions--eating, drinking, drugs, sex, gambling, smoking among others. We are the models our children...
Does an Affair Mean You Should Divorce?
Feeling enormous pain, shame, anger, and hurt when you are betrayed by your spouse's having an affair leads commonly to feeling you want to divorce. Is this the best reaction to follow? Is it what's best for you? Is it what's best for your children? Give yourself time...
Falling in love is easy; staying in love is hard.
Paul Moore and Kim Jones, co-hosts at WVVI, 93.5 FM, ,St. Croix, Virgin Islands discuss with me the challenges of marriage. It is a challenge to change your dysfunctional mindsets like when you realize you believe a good marriage should not have conflicts or...
Tiger Woods: affairs admission opens way to an honest life
In their show "The Bottom Line of Romance" my discussion with Larry Arnette and Sharon Stevens discusses sexual and financial infidelity using Tiger Woods affairs as an example. The sudden shattering of his pristine image has shocked the world and his fans, and the...
How couples talk successfully about finances and money
Host Rick Vazquez, author of "The Pizza Delivery Millionaire" and host of the Web Talk Radio show titled "Winning in the Game of Life" discusses with me how couples can talk successfully about their finances. The steps I explain include giving each other a reward...
How to Discuss Money without Arguing or Fighting
Host Don Campbell and I discuss the unintended consequences of divorce. Money is one of the leading causes of divorce, especially when a spouse has the mindset that your partner should think like you do, that is, that your partner who is a spender should become a...
Tiger Woods difficulties: can he recover? Dean Johnson, WCAP Host
What got Tiger Woods to throw away what appeared to be a perfect life? Something was missing: do he and Elin talk? Was it his father's death? Golf as a childhood? His parents' separation? His wife's first pregnancy? Can Tiger recover? Can his marriage be saved?
Download Dr. Welpton’s Audio Collection
Audios
CD1: Financial Infidelity & Money
CD2: Is my Partner the Right Person for Me?
CD3: To Stay or Not to Stay: Considerations before Divorcing
CD4: Stop Arguing for the Sake of Your Relationship