Advice in Love Relationships

First, you have to get clear with yourself.   Put on your selfish hat thinking about what feels good for you or best for you.  Follow your thinking even if you emotions are in conflict about what’s best for you.  You will often find out when you do what is best for you it often turns out to be what is best for your relationship and your partner too. If your partner doesn’t agree, suggest that you have a conversation.  Don’t start trying to come to a solution, just focus on …

Guidelines for a successful conversation about money

Accept that you and your partner will have differences. No two people think exactly alike about money and finances. One partner tends to be the saver and the other the spender. One says we can’t afford this and the other says we can’t afford not to do this. Each position has its value.

Take full responsibility for your mindset. Recognize that your mindset is not the only way to see the world, and that it has affected how you have reacted to your …

The world as we have known it is changing dramatically.  Many financial institutions we assumed were permanent have gone bankrupt. The government is now trying to rescue the banks from the catastrophe, estimating trillions of taxpayer dollars may needed.  Sadly, even with this spending, there is no guarantee that it will solve the problem. It is a time to change the way we see the world, it is time to change our mindset. Our mindsets are a way of thinking, including beliefs and mental attitude. Our mindset determines how we interpret …

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