Financial infidelity or sexual infidelity: which is worse?
For many people sexual infidelity is the ultimate betrayal. Financial infidelity or cheating with money– in which one spouse spends the couples’ joint money without telling the other– is every bit as dishonest. You are being betrayed through money. Many therapists and lawyers observe it is even more difficult to recover from financial infidelity than sexual infidelity. Your spouse is spending money that also belongs to you on someone else. The challenge to restore your trust is every bit as difficult as it is with sexual infidelity. You also are faced with loss of the money you thought you could count on. With gambling and other addictions like drinking, drugs, and compulsive shopping the money you thought you had for retirement may have been spent! Emotional infidelity in which sex is not included involves financial infidelity too.
[...] racked up thousands of dollars in credit card debt can be a marriage killer for some couples, warns Dr. Doug Welpton, a Clearwater, Fla. based psychiatrist and family [...]
Financial Infidelity can take many forms. It can range from harmless financial fibbing like lying about how much you spent for a purchase, to serious financial deception like keeping a secret bank account, or major misrepresentation of your financial status. Are you – or your spouse — guilty of financial infidelity? Take the Financial Infidelity Quiz at http://bit.ly/2ttty to find out.
Sometimes financial infidelity can even be a sign of sexual infidelity. More about that at http://bit.ly/hobAS
My husband has committed many different forms of financial infidelity throughout our 24 years of marriage. I’ve stayed because of the kids and his “promise…this is the last time”. I’ve had enough. But my question is, how do you find out if your spouse has a secret bank account? I suspect it, but can not find any records of this (like I did the other signs). Is there a way to track down a secret bank account?
I recommend you connect with Ruth Houston, who specializes in all the different ways spouses commit financial infidelity. Her website is linked to this website. One link to Ruth is: Take the Financial Infidelity Quiz at http://bit.ly/2ttty to find out. I hope this will help you. I would appreciate knowing what you find out about discovering secret bank accounts. Thank you, Dr. Doug
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