What a pain in the ass. Steve, my boss, gave me ten-thousand dollars before he took a leave from the company he owned. He told me he wanted me to make good use of the money. He was gone for three years. I was scared I’d lose his money, so I put it in a safe. When...
mindsets
Hope That Works
King Theo had just conquered the invaders who tried to plunder his kingdom which was renowned for its riches. The king cut a majestic figure with flowing black hair, brilliant blue eyes, and a close-cropped dark beard sitting astride Zeus, his magnificent white...
Overcoming Criticism
Joan’s Cape Cod cottage was nearly finished. This second home fulfilled her dream. Joan longed to retire to this cozy cottage at the end of her Information Technology career. She grew more excited every day as her new home approached completion. There was a...
What I Learned from My Wife’s Battle with Cancer
Young children are natural risk takers. I delighted watching my granddaughter, Lexi, when she was learning to walk. She pulled herself up on the leg of a chair, took a wobbly first step and fell. Undeterred, she pulled herself up on the chair and tried again. Lexi...
Patience: A Granddaughter Teaches Her Grandfather
Four-thousand miles zipped by as I flew to Hawaii to meet my one month old granddaughter. Dawn is a divine spirit with inquisitive blue eyes and fine, strawberry blond hair. She’s a larger than life spirit, measuring in the ninetieth percentile for both length and...
I’m Afraid I’m Gonna Die!
“Because with every action, comment, conversation, we have the choice to invite Heaven or Hell to Earth.” ― Rob Bell, author of Love Wins. Bret phoned. “I need an appointment. Today!” I had not heard from Bret for months. I had enjoyed counseling him. Like...
Michelle Corr,VoiceAmerica: Change Your Mindsets to Live in Heaven and not in Hell
Change your mindsets/beliefs to change your relationship, to live in Heaven rather than Hell. For example, you don't have to think alike about saving and spending your money to bring together your different mindsets for the good of your marriage. Seeing what's...
How to Change Immediately
Something exists in many of us that desperately needs to be right and finds it difficult to admit making a mistake or being wrong. When something goes wrong we immediately look for someone to blame. We abhor being blamed ourselves. I have seen this in myself. It has...
Is Equality Important in Your Marriage? Part 2:
At our next appointment Scott and Karen said they were doing better in their marriage. They were spending more time together. They had begun to take walks early in the morning and were watching movies like they used to do. Karen said, “In spite of our improvement...
The Law of Attraction Doesn’t Work, or Does It?
There are times when I have been skeptical about the Law of Attraction and whether it really works. First, I learned that the Law did not work on my timetable but that did not mean it didn’t work. I had to recognize that my focus on myself was getting in my way....
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